Givers VS Takers

How can you tell the difference between “Givers” and “Takers”? Here’s a simple listing.

Givers Takers
Why shouldn’t I help? Why should I help?
Don’t question motivations Ask “I wonder what they want?”
Ask, “How will this benefit others?” Ask, “What’s in it for me?”
Releasing Controlling
Finds power and peace
in spiritual wisdom
Finds power and peace in externals and things
Willing to be servants Must be “lords”
Follows the flow with insight Appears “In control”
Rolls with the punches Easily overwhelmed
Love unconditionally “Love” conditionally
High capacity for pain Low capacity for pain
Bear pain silently and with patience Whiners Read the rest of this entry »

(0) Comments    Read More   
Apr
11
Filed Under (Ascension Issues) by Ann on 11-04-2008

 Freeing Ourselves From The Underdog Position.

Ascension energies continue to provoke power struggles in  our relationships as many of us are waking up to the fact that we have been dominated, controlled or manipulated, often in quite subtle ways, by people who don’t always have our best interests at heart. These waves of Ascension energy produce within us a powerful desire to experience equality, justice and freedom in all areas of our life. Basically, on a soul level,  we are yearning  to experience democracy in all aspects of life and in all our relationships,  from the personal to the professional,  to the national and the  international. What this means,  is that we  are becoming unwilling and unable to tolerate an unequal balance of power in our relationships. In particular, we no longer want to be the ”underdog.” 

Some of us are  just now waking up to the fact that we have been been controlled or manipulated,   we are seeing imbalances and inequities  that previously we have been oblivious to, or perhaps that we just accepted as being “the way things are.” Whatever the case, many of us are now struggling to free  ourselves from the “underdog” position.  This isn’t easy,  because once  one of the participants in an unequal  relationship refuses to continue to submit passively to another’s  control, a power struggle ensues, and this can be very painful, even traumatic. 

These power struggles are very necessary, however,  they are reflecting the challenge  of the old Masculine, or Patriarchal, version of power,  by the new Sacred Feminine, or ”Goddess ” version of power.  The old version of power  is based on subjugation, supremacy, domination and control, while  the new version is completely democratic in nature.  Put simply, the old power heirarchy  is  in the process of being ousted by our   growing insistence that all relationships operate fairly, with both,  or all participants  in the relationship,  sharing equal power and status. 

What is making underdogs even more determined to break free from those who seek to control, limit  and dominate them, is the  Sacred Feminine energy’s  insistence on personal autonomy and individual freedom. So, if you have been, or are now, involved in an unpleasant power struggle with someone, or more than one person, know that it is your soul that is urging you to free yourself from any kind of  domination, control,  and/or restriction.  For, as  we free ourselves from all forms of unjust control and oppression, we are playing our part in creating a better, fairer future for the world, not just ourselves.

Read the rest of this entry »

(0) Comments    Read More   
Mar
26
Filed Under (Quest For The Soul) by Ann on 26-03-2008

 Who Are You, Really? 

If you can find out who you really are on a soul level, you’ll uncover the unique being you were always intended to be,  before the world and its conditioning inflicted its wounds on you,  and made you ashamed and afraid to reveal who you really are. You’ll also discover your unique place in the overall scheme of things, because in finding your true self,  you’ll also find your unique gift, and the contribution that only you, with your unique combination of characteristics, experiences and abilities,  can offer the world. 

For this to happen,  we need to go in search of ourselves. We need to remove the layers of the false self we have spent years constructing over and around our true,  authentic self: our soul.  So deep are these layers,  and so thorough the conditioning and the wounding we have received, that sometimes just the smallest gathering of threads  of our original,  genuine identity, remain in expression.

When this  is the case,  it’s because our soul has been brutalised almost beyond recognition, so brutalised that it has withdrawn from showing itself, and fallen into deep unconsciousness,  leaving an almost empty space where a strong, confident and unique identity should be. This space, which the false self attempts to fill with a ramshackle  collection of hazy notions about who we are,  leaves us not only uncertain about our identity and place in the world,  but equally uncertain about the kind of treatment we deserve to receive from other people.  In short, we have lost our sense of who we are; we have lost our soul.  So the question we all need to ask ourselves,  is, Do I know who I really am?

Read the rest of this entry »

(0) Comments    Read More