I found this article about a particular relationship drama (the victim - rescuer drama) that I know applies to sooooooo many people. It’s a drama that I personally identify with, although I am now - happily for me - a recovering rescuer! So, if any of you are still dancing the rescuer dance, take a tip from me and hand responsibility back to whoever is looking to you to fix their problems/life. You might lose a friend, partner or relative, when you refuse to continue “playing the game” but you will have gained a brand new - not to mention, freer and more enjoyable - life for yourself. Anyway, as this article suggests, “Stop Being Blamed and Start Creating an Incredible Life.”
The article is entitled,”Take Back Your Personal Power,” and you’ll find it on a blog ( for 7th July 08) entitled “Enlightenment.” The address is: