Although we all knew that changes in the way we interact with others were desperately needed,  I’m amazed at how quickly the laws of the “old” patriarchal regime and its’ corresponding codes and patterns of behaviour are being rejected by ever increasing numbers of people. Obviously, more and more of us are waking up and taking our power back from those who seek, or have sought,  to dominate and control us.  

Those people who are still heavily invested in the “old” way of doing things  aren’t giving up their positions of power and dominance without a struggle, however,  and many of us have been witnessing some unpleasant “final throes” as these adherents of the dying regime  attempt to hold on to their status,  control and power over us. There have been some very gruelling incidents and encounters for some of us as these increasingly unstable characters have resorted to all kinds of unprincipled tactics  designed to keep us in line and in our place( which according to them is doing what they want us to do.)  I’ve heard of people threatening, lying, deceiving,  bribing, and/or, launching vicious verbal attacks and assaults on those who are starting to refuse to be, or do,  exactly what these tyrants and bullies want.  

The Paradise Rule:  Everyone Must Gain, No-One Must Lose.

If you are one of those people who has been at the receiving end of  this type of  ”old regime” behaviour, you may find that no balance or agreement can be struck between you:  you either have to capitulate and do it  their way, or they won’t play with you any more! In these particular kind of encounters there is always a winner and a loser, and only the winner  ever really gains anything.

Yet, if  we are  to create Heaven on Earth - and we most assuredly will - we need to adopt new ways of relating to one another, ways that honour and respect every single person and reflect the laws and rules of Paradise, rather than those of the world we have all grown up in.  Basically,  we need to begin consciously to model our behaviour  on the  more enlightened principles that the union of the Masculine and Feminine Energies bring,  such as the rule that everyone must gain and no-one must lose, in whatever situation or relationship we find ourselvs involved in.  The idea of sacrifice has no place in Paradise!

We will create Heaven on Earth by choosing to act in these higher, more enlightened ways. And, because the principle Everyone Must Gain and No-One must Lose is in perfect alignment with the New Energy of Ascension and the Laws of Unity Consciousness,  relationships,  projects and  endeavours that are founded upon this rule will flow smoothly and successfully. And need I say that those people who don’t want to apply this rule in their dealings with others are going to start to stick out like the proverbial “sore thumbs” soon, so take heart.

If in your Ascension process you have had to walk away from some relationships that failed to  nurture or honour your point of view, feelings, needs and wants,  however, you can be assured that the relationships that take their place will be of a higher vibration and therefore much more satisfying, rewarding and joyful. On the other hand, if you are trying to hang on to a relationship in which your feelings, needs and desires aren’t being acknowledged, then unfortunately, this isn’t likely to change and you may well have to face this uncomfortable fact. 

As  more and more of us refuse to condone and  accept  patterns of behaviour that are intended to make us - or anyone else, for that matter - do or be,  something that is against our highest and best interests,  the sooner we will birth a new and better world: a Heaven on Earth. In the meantime, we just need to trust that however stormy things have been, or continue to be, these are amazing times in which we are being provided with exceptional opportunities to lift our lives, our relationships, and the whole of the human race,  on to a wonderful new level. It surely is a case of,  Paradise here we come!