Change occurs when you become what you are,

not when you try to become what you are not . . .

Change seems to happen when you have abandoned the chase after what you want to be

(or think you want to be)

and have accepted and fully experienced what you are.

Janette Rainwater.

First of all, thank you,  Enid,  for your appreciative comments on my article ”Addicted to Self-Improvement and/or  Self-Perfection.” I am so pleased you found the article enjoyable. It’s  great to know that that there are people out there who are actually reading my blog!  To find in addition that there are those of you who derive some benefit from my efforts gives me a great deal of joy and spurs me on.   So, thank you, thank you.  I  appreciate you taking the time  and effort to post your comment.

 Dropping Our Masks.

You are quite right, we do burden ourselves and others when we try ”to please, impress and perfect, etc. others.”  One of our most significant spiritual leaps is when we decide to  drop the masks we wear, worn in part in order to conceal what we consider are our human frailties and shortcomings,  and to present what we believe is a better- self, or “face,” to the world. (My series, “Quest For the Soul,” examines how  and why we  manufacture these false-selves, or masks. ) Our task, as we journey towards wholeness and enlightenment, is to become aware of these masks,  and,  learn how to let them go.  

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